It's no wonder everyone in the Butch-Femme tribe knows a happy couple or two who met right here!
What We Do Our mission is simple: to help single Butches and Femmes find the kind of relationship they’re looking for.
And to help ensure the integrity of our community resources, every profile and photo is screened daily by our Customer Care team for appropriateness before it’s posted to the site.
With new management and a complete rebuild of our entire site, we've rediscovered our passionate commitment for making a difference in our community.
We've brought a new support team onboard and we plan to dedicate the next decade to continued improvements of our resources and our customer service.
She can pass for being straight, but we know she’s not because she said so and because of who she is with (i.e. A butch is the lesbian who will never put on a dress or wear makeup, a bra or thong that comes from Victoria’s Secret. She’s the one who builds houses, drives a motorcycle and loved her military service because she could wear a uniform just like the guys. Femme lesbians are seen a lot more often in the media and get the leading celesbian roles in lesbian media. It sparked the stereotypical question that is still often asked, “So who’s the guy? ” It’s a stupid question because no one is trying to be the guy in a lesbian relationship, and no one is arguing about who wears pants versus who wears the dress or who’s going to have the baby.
We are in a time period where the femme lesbian gets all the attention because straight male culture enjoys fantasizing about a night with two lesbians. Femmes are no more interested in hooking up with a guy than butches, and straight male porn creates fantasies about lesbians that are not even close to true.
Helping you cut right to the chase is our specialty!
We take great pride in thousands and thousands of successful relationships, matches and marriages we’ve helped put together over the last decade and a half.It’s our goal to make sure your experience on Butch Femme Matchmaker is positive, flirty, and fun, and to help you discover the most satisfying relationship you’ve ever had.In the end, we believe in putting more love into this world.For 14 years, Butch Femme Matchmaker has remained the only dating resource dedicated exclusively to "just your type". We understand the Butch-Femme dance, and we know all the steps.With a completely new kickass dating engine and a clean, unrivaled database of over 35,000 Butch and Femme members, your search for love starts right here.Everyone deserves to love and be loved, and we look forward to creating thousands of more success stories.