Of course I’m talking generally here and only about looks(since thats what the original poster was talking about).
This may not seem like a problem to some women, but for me it is.
(I believe it’s called dating.) There were a few men in the past several months that I liked.
They were nice and I could see an eventual relationship coming of our dating. Over the next several days he calls me constantly, starts talking about wanting a commitment from me, about our future together, and basically freaks me out from wanting to even go out with him again.
It will benefit you both in the long run, because admit it, guys appreciate what they work hard for! A man has to have a chiseled handsome or symmetrical face to pull off that kind of power. A guy with a great body but ugly face can walk into a room and get ZERO attention or reaction from the ladies. Plastic surgery can only go so far, and like I said earlier, most men prefer the natural beauty. And women who make the mistake of trying to stop time with plastic surgery run the danger of entering “freakville” if they are not careful.
Heres the big difference between female shallowness and male shallowness. But have a guy with an extremely handsome face walk into the same room with an ok body…and the women will practically fall all over themselves trying to flirt with him. So most average men and all ugly men suffer in frustration while their average or ugly counter parts enjoy the joys of sex and attraction. Excercise and proper diet go much farther in staving off the effects of time than do numerous face lifts and botox that only turn women into walking freakshows. There comes a time to let it go and grow old gracefully.
Like most women, she took one look at hunky hubby-to-be and presumed ill. He can sculpt his body into a Greek Statue and he will NEVER be considered “HOT” by the masses of women. When groups of women get around and talk about a “HOT” guy…it’s ALWAYS referring to his face. So men have it FAR FAR worse than women, and are basically less shallow and more inclusive in what they find attractive.
So, she made it hard for him; she made him work for her. In the past, she had made it easy for the other guys she dated because she assumed they weren’t jerks, but they all took off later. Like I said, MOST women no matter what their face looks like can be SEXY to a WIDE group of men. All those ugly and average guys hitting the gym should just give up.
Like my grandma always used to tell me, “If you follow, they will run; if you run, they will follow.” But that’s another topic for another day! That is why it matters what a man does for a living. The flip side is that many women mistakenly think men want supermodels. Not because of what they wear or the make up they use to cover their faces.
All I’m saying is that looks are deceiving, but if the drop-dead gorgeous man makes you somewhat wary, and that in turn causes you to make yourself the challenge that you are, then by all means, be wary! So they plaster on the make up and buy the latest fashions…in reality, men don’t give a shit about all that. The truth is that women do all that to compete with OTHER women.
Men get blamed for being “visual” or “shallow” but in reality women, like the writer of this article are much more shallow. Yet if a woman with an average or even ugly face walked into a room but had a fly body or just big boobs…would fall all over themselves to get to her. Women who never develop a personality and only relied on their looks growing up can turn into real angry bitter people. I’ve seen many a HOT women snag the HOT guy only to be left for a younger HOTTER trophy down the road.
Life can be very lonely when you only see beauty as skin deep.
A wonderful, stay-all-day, pack a-lunch-and-a-dinner-while-you’re-at-it-and-stay-awhile kinda guy that just makes you think, “Lord, have mercy!