” “Dating for 40 is extremely difficult” “Wasteland if you’re over 45” “It’s great for my 27-year-old daughter, but awful for me, her 54-year-old mom.” “Men in Charlotte are too buttoned up, too shy, etc.With so many people marrying young or in serious relationship, it’s not a great city for singles in my opinion.” “I’m sure I’m just looking in all of the wrong places, but as a young, successful, outgoing female, it is very hard to find mature, dateable guys here.Recently, we reached out to our 19,000 Agenda newsletter subscribers and asked them: How would you grade the dating scene in Charlotte? The hook-up scene on the other hand is an A .” “Charlotte is weird for dating.
If I’m not going on dates regularly, its by (my) choice.” “I don’t date because that would piss off my wife.” “Guy to girl ratio is much better than in college, where it was 70% girls.” “All the guys are literally cookie cutter: either young, cocky bankers or redneck country boys. Oh…married or gay….that’s right….” Being Jewish, the Jewish dating scene for Males ( I am) is tough, especially looking for a nice Jewish girl (NJG) “Everyone is a transplant so the urge to meet new friends and try new things is there sort of like a college town.
I’ve found that it’s like a big small city where everyone is looking to date but no one is looking to commit.” “CLT is a city of young professionals.
I’ve never had any issues finding a new partner :)” “Bumble app is the way to go!
” “Very few of the men want to ask women out in person.
Charlotte has become very superficial and everybody is waiting for something better to come along than focusing on what they have in front of them. I think the dating scene is exceptional despite what all my friends would tell you. Bonus: Men are typically not photogenic so you’re usually in for a pleasant surprise when you meet them.
I am just as guilty in this, but it is a product of the environment we are in.” “If I meet one more guy who works in finance and whose primary hobby is drinking I will lose my mind.” “I dated most everyone who had both a face and a job on Tinder. “I’m really not into the bro’d out, preppy, Vineyard Vines type. Give me diversity and some hunka hunka outdoorsy guys.” “For an ex Special Forces guy it’s pretty easy pickins in this city of metrosexual girly men…especially since most of them are candy asses from up north…” “CLT is full of people who are committed to their career first and relationship second.
When I got to CLT I felt like everyone my age was married and having kids so I did and met my now husband within weeks.” “Terrible for singles with children.” “When I was doing online dating, all of the guys seemed the same.
Frat-tactic, and that’s not my scene.” “Most men are metro sexual and so full of themselves.” “After many trials and tribulations in the Charlotte dating scene (including my first ever ghosting experience), I met my current boyfriend on Tinder.
Women are looking for men with money.” “What happened to Southern Charm?
” “Lots of attractive, available, stable men (from a female perspective).
Would be nice if there were more options than bars, breweries and the like to meet someone.” “Moved here 4 years ago, knowing no one, joined because I was having zero luck out on my own. There are plenty of attractive women here, just not that many that I would consider as a partner.